Saturday, October 31, 2009
Haunting Halloween
The Night Before Halloween
Tuesday, October 27, 2009
First Snowfall
Sunday, October 18, 2009
I'll cry if I want too.....
In first grade, I invited friends from my neighborhood to join in celebrating my birthday. My mom made cake with purple icing and hung balloons on the ceiling. I planned the games and awaited my friends eagerly.
There was no school the day of my party since the school district was observing the deer hunt. Everyone hunted deer in those days. I have clear memories of dead deer hanging from neighboring trees with their tongues lolling out of their months. My brother and his friends would trip from house to house out fitted with long twigs for the sole purpose of poking the eyes out of the deer. It was gross. The holiday was seriously called ‘Deer Hunt Break’, now it is called ‘Fall Break’.
Anyhow, the time approached and two of my friends (who happened to be sisters) arrived on time; the rest never showed up. Where was everyone? Deer hunting with their dads of course!
I remember my mom smiling and serving us generous portions of cake and ice cream. She presented me with a pencil box that I had my eye on since school had started. I loved that pencil box. Instead of games, we played school. Seeing that it was my birthday, I got to be teacher the whole time. I still remember the desire to be a teacher even then.
I recall how sad I was that no one came to my party. Now I am thankful for my mom and my two friends who made my birthday memorable.
Never cared for deer hunt season since then.
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In fifth grade I went to school the day of my birthday with a backpack full of treats to hand out to my class. After all, everyone brought treats to share with their classmates on their birthday.
I waited behind my desk anticipating my teacher to announce my special day ALL day. The bell rang to go home, out the door I went with my backpack full of treats. I was too embarrassed to tell my mom that my teacher forgot my birthday, so I didn't say anything.
I took my treats to school for a couple of more days hoping my teacher would remember – nope. Instead I ate the treats all by myself. They were only Smarties, but two to three Smarties per person nonetheless. I think I made myself sick.
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This year I shooed three boys out of the door with a kiss and waved goodbye as I watched them pull the camping trailer out of the neighborhood for the annual deer hunt. Three boys gone for three days – yahoo!
Then three sweet girls and I played, played and played. We left our beds unmade and didn’t do the dishes at all on Saturday – we ate out. We made Halloween lantern jars, went to Wizard Night at the local museum and enjoyed a show at the sticky feet theater.
Sunday, I woke up to many birthday wishes from dear family and friends who enjoy the advantages of technology (Facebook). At church I received more wishes, it doesn’t hurt that my birthday (along with other October fellows) was printed in the church announcements. Primary children sang to me, two cute teenage boys came up and wished me ‘Happy Birthday’ and a dear friend handed off a big pumpkin sugar cookie to me as we passed in the hallway. Oblivious to my 4 year class, I ate it all. After church the surprises kept coming to my door and phone. What a wonderful day!
Cameron called to wish me a Happy Birthday and said the boys were on their way home….this is where the glorious music comes to screeching halt and the tears start to flow.
Hang on! It’s only been two days.
I suppose they miss me. Okay, come home – I want my birthday kisses.